He’s really into you. Or is he?
When the person you like acts subtly, it’s sometimes hard to tell whether they like you or not. It can be very confusing as you can’t say for sure if this person is flirting with you, or they behave like this with everyone.
Most of us aren’t confident enough to let someone know that you’re interested in them. Both men and women are afraid of rejection.
Trying to find the signs that someone actually likes you can make you very nervous, particularly when that guy (or girl) is always nice. The line between being nice and flirting can be very blurry and, often, people send mixed signals without even knowing about it.
But, luckily, there are some proven signs that let you figure out if your crush likes you back.
They don’t mind going out of their way – for you.
Far not everyone is willing to sacrifice their plans or time just to see you, and talk to you, – sometimes not even your friends. The person who likes you will make time for you.
For instance, this person is ready to drive you somewhere even if they live far away from you. They’re also prepared to do things that aren’t in their direct interest, like watching a musical with you because you like it or going shopping with you.
They are interested in your personality.
If a person asks you many personal questions, for example, about your life, family, likes and dislikes, etc. it’s definitely because they would like to get to know you, which probably means that they like you.
When a person is just being nice, he or she usually doesn’t bother asking you any personal questions, sticking to small talk.
They are interested in what your relationship status is.
People don’t care whether you’re dating someone if they see you only as a friend. Obviously, if someone likes you, they want to know if you are single or not.
They make an effort to remember small details.
Somebody who isn’t interested in you romantically will listen to you because they don’t want to seem rude. But, if this person actively keeps the conversation going for a long time and also remembers (and lets you know that he/she remembers) some tiny details from what you’ve said even a long time ago, then most likely, they really like you in a romantic way. This is actually one of the most accurate ways to know this sort of stuff.
They truly care about your well-being.
Of course your friends – if they are good friends – also show their interest in what’s going on with you, especially if they know that you are going through something.
But, a person who likes you will often ask you how your day was, they will make sure if you got home safe, etc.
They are constantly interested in what is happening to you all the time. They recognize things like your bad mood; in this case, they’ll ask you what is the reason why, and also do their best to make you smile.
They treat you differently compared to other people.
When you are with a group of friends, this person will pay attention to you more than to any of your friends.
For instance, they’ll do their best to ensure that you’re enjoying the party by being by your side all the time. You might also notice other signs that they behave in a different way towards you: they may sometimes lose their cool and look nervous when you are around.
These are the most reliable ways to know if someone likes you. So if you notice these signs, you’ll probably be able to move to the next exciting step: dating! Good luck!