Do what these tips say and your woman will thank you.
Men do their best to figure it out, but it’s still difficult for many of them.
What exactly does she like? Well, this last question is something you should probably ask her, but you can also try different things out, the stuff that works for other women. Chances are, something here will work for your lady as well.
A thousand women participated in a survey about what they actually wanted from their partners in bed. Here we’ve summarized their raw and honest answers.
Take her clothes off… slowly
“I need time on this step. And I need to see how much he wants me.” – Angela S.
It happens way too often when couples start the action right away. It certainly works sometimes, as that’s raw desire. However, seduction should be slower, there’s no time for rushing. Undress her slowly and allow your eyes and hands brush, caress and grip different places all over her.
So, anticipation and affection are key.
Being intimate in public
“Full-on penetration isn’t necessary, just getting close where someone can see us, works just fine for me.” – Diana D.
Your lady might not want to have intimacy in a public place (after all, getting arrested isn’t that sexy for most people), but the excitement of being witnessed is a big turn-on for lots of women. This makes sense, as part of the thrill when you’re a teen is not being caught doing… whatever. There are no reasons to change in adulthood.
But of course, while it can be true for lots of women, it might not apply to your significant other. So, talk to her before doing anything, because like with everything in intimacy really, communication is the most important thing.
Let her be in control
“I really want to take control. Not every single time, but there are occasions. I just like doing things to him that please him.” – Erica W.
Control can be a big turn-on for lots of people, both men, and women.
Even though most participants of our survey weren’t interested in a BDSM lifestyle, more than half (53%) were clear that they would like their man to feel some level of submission, for example, tie him up, spank him, etc.
There was also a group of women (9%) who were looking to have the same level of authority as a man. Not just to be on top… they wanted him on the bottom.
So, she has just as much passion as you and she wants the chance to show you this.
“My partner has a foot fetish. So I wear stockings and heels for him, and this makes him lose his mind.” — Jessie M.
When we dress up and pretend to be someone else, this is freeing us and in a way lets for things and ideas to play with that generally, you wouldn’t be so keen on following through. By wearing a costume or taking on a completely different role, you can get rid of your inhibitions and insecurities that get in the way of pleasure.
So, taking on a different persona can not only be lots of fun, but it can also kill off those relationship dynamics that sometimes reduce personal freedom.
A diversity of moves
“Sometimes need love and affection. But there are other times when I want it fast, hard, and even with a little hardness!” – Jessica B.
Over 80% of the participants of our survey mentioned that they experienced that their men oftentimes have just one speed – fast.
Whereas women crave for a variety of all sorts of moves and the kinds of caresses and touches. This concerns both the place where it happens and the amount of pressure needed. They desire you to use your tongue and hands, and also to be more adventurous with body position.
Women’s bodies are so much pleasure to explore. Try various things out as she allows and find out what works for her. Trust us, she’s going to love it. And hey, for you this process will be enjoyable, too!